Allowance and the Art of paying for grades

This might be a controversial take: We pay our 6th grader for his grades. Here is why.

From 2008 - 2018 we lived in a small 2-BR apartment in Brooklyn, NY. My daughter was the first grandchild on both sides and as such, showered with endless gifts from every Grandparent, Great-Grandparent, Aunts, Uncles, you name it. By the time she was 1-year old, her small bedroom was filled to the brim with toys, books, costumes, and trinkets. Have you ever seen Mike Birbiglia’s comedy special entitled “The New One?” Fast forward to the finale and that is like what it was. She was never a fan of purging (what kid is?), so decluttering became a seasonal act of service I grew to relish, though I always feared tiny tears if I disappeared something that, in her mind, was irreplaceable.

In 2012, she turned 5. Around that time, I think parents start talking about giving their child an allowance. But something else happened in 2012. Our son was born, and we were drowning in more stress and stuff than ever. Public school started, and the idea of an allowance just kind of dissipated. We went on with our lives for the next 5 years in similar patterns. Taking on stuff every holiday and birthday - only now it was double. Eventually, they shared that tiny room, and we were constantly stretched for cash, time, and space. Finally, we sold the place and moved to greener pastures in Pennsylvania.

But I digress. This blog is supposed to be about allowance. The idea of a traditional allowance never sat right with us. We talked with other parents and considered different approaches over the years but couldn’t find one that felt right for our family. For instance, tying allowance to chores didn’t work with our values—we believe that contributing to the household is simply part of being in a community. Chores should be something everyone does because they’re a member of a family, not because they’re earning cash. And giving out cash just for the sake of it didn’t sit well either. Our kids already received everything they needed and more. We didn’t want to add to the piles of stuff, especially when it often ends up as more clutter in our home, and eventually, in a landfill.

Now, our son is just starting 6th grade, and our daughter is off to college next year. We’re looking for new ways to teach them both the value of money and hard work. As far as our son goes, paying him for his grades has started to make sense. Now that he’s older, he’s more aware of the things he wants, and his interests are expanding beyond the basics. We want him to experience the satisfaction and independence that come with earning something for himself. Paying him for grades feels like a good way to bridge that gap, as it directly links to his efforts and achievements. He sees that his hard work at school can literally pay off, reinforcing the importance of education and showing that dedication brings rewards.

We also appreciate that paying for grades sends a clear message: academic efforts are his responsibility. School is his “job” right now, and by rewarding his effort, we’re helping him prioritize his studies. It gives him a sense of control, knowing he has the potential to earn his own spending money. To make it work, we set clear expectations. Together, we discuss which grades earn a what monetary compensation. He now reports to me about how he’s doing in each class, and it allows me to encourage him and get to know how he’s feeling when we rarely had these types of conversations in elementary school!

In the end, every family has a different approach to allowances, chores, and rewards. For us, paying for grades is a great way to teach our son responsibility while helping him gain independence. It’s helped us find a balance that feels right, and we’re happy with how it’s working so far.

What I would tell my daughter about picking a major if she would tolerate me talking about college for more than 5 seconds.

Choosing a major in college can be overwhelming, especially when it feels like this decision will impact the rest of your life. For me, the decision to pursue a major in Photography with a minor in Communications was driven by my love for visual storytelling. My journey started with a childhood obsession: family snapshots. These photos weren’t just images; they were stories told by my parents and grandparents. This early fascination shaped my academic path and career choice.

From hours spent poring over family photo albums, I realized that photography was about more than just capturing moments—it was about telling stories. This passion guided my decision-making when choosing my college major. Here’s how I broke it down, step by step, to help you choose the right major too.

1. Are You a Natural?

When I first picked up a camera, it felt intuitive. While my early photos could be a bit blurry or grainy, I quickly grasped the basics of composition and felt confident that I could excel in the field. Your major should feel natural to you. If working in that field feels more like flowing with the current rather than against it, you’ve found something worth pursuing.

2. Do You Actually Enjoy It?

Photography wasn’t just a hobby for me—it was a passion. In high school, I would often stay late in the darkroom, captivated by the process. My teacher noticed my dedication and asked me to join the photography club. This was a clear sign that photography was more than just a hobby. Make sure your major is something you enjoy so much that you’d engage with it even outside of the classroom.

3. Will This Major Help You Achieve Your Financial Goals?

While photography was my passion, I knew it wasn’t always the most stable career path. To add more versatility to my education, I minored in Communications. This combination allowed me to pursue creative work while gaining skills in writing, marketing, and video production—fields with potentially more stable financial prospects. When choosing your major, it’s important to think about both your passion and the potential financial opportunities it offers.

4. Do You Like the People in That Major?

The people you spend time with in college can significantly impact your experience. In my photography and communications courses, I found myself surrounded by like-minded individuals who shared my passion for storytelling. We collaborated, critiqued each other’s work, and pushed each other to make thought-provoking work. Think about whether the people in your major inspire you—this can make or break your experience.

5. Will This Major Give You the College Experience You Want?

Photography gave me the freedom to explore beyond the classroom, while Communications grounded me in essential media and research skills. Your major will shape your college experience, so ask yourself: Will it allow you to live the life you want in college? Some majors demand rigorous studying, while others offer more flexibility.

Mastering Back Button Focus: How to Capture Sharp Photos of Moving Subjects

If you’ve ever struggled to get tack-sharp photos of moving subjects, this post is for you! As a professional photographer, one of the most common challenges I see is capturing crystal-clear shots when your subject is in motion. Today, I’m going to introduce you to a game-changing technique that will solve this problem: Back Button Focus.

As a photographer who specializes in capturing candid, spontaneous moments, I love how back button focus gives me greater control over my shots. Whether I’m photographing kids, my dogs, or any fast-moving subject, I can keep my focus locked in as I wait for just the right moment. The best part? I no longer have to worry about missing the shot due to a slight shift in focus when I press the shutter.

This technique is going to be especially useful as I start taking photos of tennis players in action. With their quick movements, back button focus will allow me to track them continuously without losing that sharpness, ensuring I get clear, in-focus shots of every serve, volley, and sprint across the court.

Back button focus has saved countless photos for me, and I truly believe it’s a must-have technique for anyone serious about their photography.

Why Back Button Focus Is a Game Changer

When you first get your camera, it’s typically set up so that half-pressing the shutter button locks focus on your subject, and fully pressing it takes the photo. While this works fine for still subjects, it can cause issues with motion. Here’s why: in the milliseconds between locking focus and taking the shot, your moving subject may shift slightly, resulting in a blurry or soft photo.

The solution? Back Button Focus. This technique separates your focus from the shutter, allowing you to maintain continuous focus on a moving subject without risking those blurry results.

How Back Button Focus Works

By reprogramming your camera’s buttons, you can assign the focus function to a button on the back of the camera (usually labeled "AF-ON" or the star button). Here’s the magic: once you press and hold this button, your camera continuously tracks the subject as it moves, locking focus until you’re ready to press the shutter and capture the moment.

For example, if you're photographing a child playing, you can lock focus with the back button and follow their movements for minutes at a time. Then, when they do something cute or look up at you with a smile, you’re ready to snap that perfectly focused shot—without missing a beat.

How to Set Up Back Button Focus

Nikon Cameras:

  1. Go to the Custom Setting Menu (the little pencil icon).

  2. Navigate to Controls and select Assign AE-L/AF-L button (this is f4 on many models).

  3. Set it to AF-ON to assign focusing to the back button.

  4. In some models, you may also need to go into the Autofocus settings and change the AF Activation to AF-ON only, removing it from the shutter button.

Canon Cameras:

  1. Open your Custom Controls Menu.

  2. Change the shutter button’s function from Metering & AF Start to Metering Start only.

  3. If your Canon doesn’t have an "AF-ON" button, you can assign the star button as the back button focus.

  4. You’ll find this under Custom Controls > Shutter/AE Lock Button, and from there, select Metering Start/AF-ON.

This setup allows your camera to focus continuously as long as you hold down the back button, giving you total control over when and where to lock focus on your subject.

Got Questions?

I hope this guide has helped you get a better understanding of how back button focus works and how to set it up on your camera. If you have any questions or run into issues while adjusting your settings, feel free to drop them in the comments or reach out to me directly. I’d be happy to help you troubleshoot or walk you through the process in more detail.

Happy shooting, and I’ll see you next time with more tips to improve your photography!

— Kristina Gibb Photography

Why I shoot on Shutter Priority. But first, the FACTS!

Whether you're shooting family portraits, senior photos, engagements, proposals, or maternity sessions, these settings will help you capture stunning images every time.

Let’s dive in!

Aperture: Creating That Beautiful Blurry Background

Aperture is arguably the most important setting, as it controls how much of the image is in focus and how much of the background is beautifully blurred. Here’s a quick guide based on how many people are in your shot:

  • 1-4 people: Set your aperture to f/2.8 to f/5.6 for a nice balance between focus and background blur.

  • 4-6 people: Start at f/4 and work your way up to f/6.3.

  • 6-10 people: Use at least f/5.6, going up to f/11 or more, especially when photographing larger groups.

Pro Tip: Your distance from the subject matters. The farther away you are, the more of your scene will be in focus, so adjust accordingly.

Shutter Speed: Capturing Movement Without Blur

Your shutter speed controls motion. If your subjects are posed and sitting still, you can use a lower shutter speed. But when photographing families (especially with kids), you’ll want to bump that number up to capture movement without blur.

  • Still subjects: Keep your shutter speed at a minimum of 1/200 or 1/250 to avoid camera shake and blurry photos.

  • Kids or action shots: Start at 1/400 and go up from there. If you’re shooting playful moments, like kids laughing or running, a shutter speed of at least 1/500 will freeze the action.

Always take a few test shots and adjust based on what you see.

ISO: Managing Light in Various Settings

ISO controls your camera’s sensitivity to light. A low ISO is great for bright, sunny days, while higher settings help in low-light environments. Here’s a basic guide:

  • Full sun: ISO 100

  • Slightly cloudy: ISO 200-400

  • Shade or cloudy day: ISO 400-1600

  • Indoors: Start at ISO 800 and adjust upwards. Crop sensor cameras may require higher ISOs, like 3200 or more, especially in dim conditions.

Pro Tip: Don’t fear high ISOs! The goal is to keep your light meter as close to zero as possible, which indicates a properly exposed photo.

Why I Shoot in Shutter Priority Mode

Personally, I prefer shooting in Shutter Priority mode, and here’s why: It gives me full control over the shutter speed, which is crucial when capturing movement—especially when working with families or kids. In situations where my subjects may be moving or playing, I can ensure that the motion is frozen and the image stays sharp.

This mode allows the camera to automatically adjust the aperture for proper exposure while I control the shutter speed. It’s a great balance, especially when I’m more focused on ensuring that the motion in my shots is crisp and sharp. In dynamic situations where movement is unpredictable, Shutter Priority takes a bit of the pressure off, letting me focus on the moment without worrying about constantly adjusting aperture settings.

Additional Tips for Perfect Family Photos

  • Shutter Speed & Focal Length: Never shoot at a shutter speed lower than your lens’s focal length. For example, if you're using an 85mm lens, your shutter speed should be at least 1/85.

  • Group Photos: When shooting large groups like family reunions, avoid placing people in too many rows. If you do, use an aperture of f/11 or higher and focus on the middle row to ensure everyone is in focus.

  • Spot Metering & Single Point Focus: Spot metering allows your camera to expose correctly based on a specific point in your frame. Single point focus lets you control exactly where the camera focuses, giving you precise control over the sharpness of your images.

Learn More & Ask Questions

Photography is an art form, and learning how to master your camera settings can take time. If you have questions about depth of field, exposure, or any other technical aspect, I’m here to help! Feel free to ask any questions, whether it’s here or on my social platforms. I’ve got tons of videos that break down these concepts further.

So next time you’re out shooting, use these tips as a starting point. Test, adjust, and most importantly, have fun! Your best photos are just a few clicks away.

A little bit about SHoMA

I recently applied for a grant and found the process incredibly valuable for refining my vision and goals for the space. Answering detailed questions about why I started Solebury House of Movement and Art, our mission, how we innovate, and how the grant would benefit us forced me to articulate my thoughts clearly. This exercise helped solidify my understanding of what we aim to achieve and how we impact our community. It was an enlightening experience that clarified our objectives and I'm excited to share these refined goals and the clearer vision I now have for our future.

Why did you start your business?

I opened the annex to teach art & movement classes that enhance creativity, embodiment, and build connections. My focus is on nurturing personal growth through art-making and movement. Both practices can be transformative and enrich lives deeply.

What is your business’ mission or vision?

In the immediate, my vision includes diverse summer programming for youth and adults alike, with 2-hour workshops in fashion design, yoga, choreography, hand-sewing, knitting, crochet, flower-arranging, and mindfulness, aiming to foster creativity and community.

How does your business innovate or add value for your customers?

My business innovates by blending art with sensory experiences and movement, enriching creativity and personal growth, and offering unique workshops that foster community connections.

How will your business give back to the community?

Since we just opened this year, I have only a vision on how to give back: by offering scholarships, free community workshops, donating art supplies to local schools, and hosting public art events that encourage creativity and cultural engagement.

How would receiving a grant help you?

It would help enhance program variety, improve teacher pay and facility equipment, expand community outreach, and allow for more specialized workshops, Increase accessibility through a scholarship program, and fund visiting guest artist programs!

My personal experience of Instagram as an early adopter 'til now

“What could I do if I just knew it didn't need to be perfect? It just needed to be.” Lin-Manuel Miranda

I am a woman and I am a photographer. I was a photographer before social media was a thing. I took a photo and it lived in an acid-free sleeve in a binder or MAYBE framed on a wall somewhere. The only people I would be sure saw it, I usually had to be in the room with.

I can't help but reflect on the dramatic shift that has occurred in the social media landscape over the last 13 years. I spent the last hour scrolling down, down, down to reach the depths of my first Instagram post from 691 weeks ago on November 22, 2010. If you are old enough, do you remember how it was then? “Bad” photos were good to post, and “Good” photos were kind of objectively bad to post. They went against the vibe Instagram was creating. Here is my first Instagram photo on my private account. (No comments yet. And also, no likes):

Very little thought went into the making of that image. We had tiny iPhones producing low-res files. What mattered was the afterthought— How were we going to edit the photo after it was taken, and how we were all going to experience it when looking back on it. The point wasn’t the beauty and perfection of a well-lit, polished photo. The point was the documentation of the moment and the fun of tapping into that anticipatory nostalgia we were all experiencing knowing we were young and living the most tender, precious moments of our lives.

That nostalgic feeling we were all preemptively chasing was served to us through filters that revolutionized mobile photography, by offering us a range of vintage-inspired effects that transformed ordinary snapshots into works of “art”. These filters, like Earlybird, X-Pro II, and Lo-fi, imbued our snapshots with an old-time photographic charm, evoking the look and feel of the analog film photography we grew up visually feasting upon in our family photo albums. With their warm tones, vignettes, and subtle textures, Instagram filters allowed us to infuse their images with a sense of authenticity and character, distinguishing them from the pristine digital photos that were splashing magazine covers and web pages at the time. These filters became synonymous with Instagram's brand identity, shaping the aesthetic of the platform and influencing the visual language of social media as a whole.

In those early days, it felt like I was riding a wave of personal and professional success with my photography. My professional photos lived on a whole other account & website, creating a clear boundary between my “work” photos and my snapshot photography that functioned largely as time capsules of my day/week/month, etc. At the time, Instagram posts were ordered chronologically, meaning that they appeared in your feed in the order they were uploaded. This chronological timeline provided us all with a real-time view of the content shared by the accounts we followed, ensuring our fingers were on the pulse of the latest updates from friends and family. This fostered a sense of immediacy and spontaneity in our interactions on Insta. Location tagging was also brand new, and attaching a geographical pin drop to your post enhanced the experience, as well. You never knew if a friend would message you, saying they were nearby at any given moment. It fostered a sense of connectivity and discovery.

My feed in 2010

As I observe the evolution of the digital landscape, I'm struck by a pang of longing for the simplicity of those early days. The relentless demand for engaging video content has fundamentally transformed the fabric of social media, overshadowing an era when photography was more than just about capturing the perfect shot. It was a profound act of preserving the essence of a moment, a testament to our shared experiences and emotions. In the rush towards viral content and fleeting trends, the authenticity and connection that once defined social media photography seem increasingly elusive. Gone are the days when imperfections were celebrated, and each photo was a cherished document of a memory or emotion. Instead, we find ourselves inundated with an endless stream of curated content, carefully crafted to capture attention in a world that's constantly scrolling.

Yet amidst this whirlwind of change, I find solace in the memories of a time when sharing a photo was a personal and meaningful experience. It was about more than just likes and shares; it was about forging connections and immortalizing moments that mattered. As we navigate the ever-evolving digital landscape, I hold onto these memories as a reminder of the power and beauty of authentic expression in an increasingly detached and individualized world.

Slime Time: Unlocking the Surprising Benefits of Slime in Early Childhood Development

Hey there, parents and educators: Have you ever wondered about the wonders of slime in early childhood development? It's more than just a fun and gooey plaything; it's a powerhouse in supporting kids' sensory and cognitive growth.

Let's dive into the squishy world of slime. Its unique texture isn't just for fun—it's a crucial part of developing fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination in little ones. Pfeiffer et al. (2014) showed us that tactile stimulation, like what you get from playing with slime, significantly boosts fine motor abilities. That's right, all that stretching and squishing is actually prep work for skills like writing!

But wait, there's more! Case-Smith et al. (2013) highlighted how sensory-rich experiences, like those provided by slime, are key for cognitive processing and sensory integration. These diverse textures help in sensory learning, aiding kids in differentiating between sensations and textures.

Creativity alert! As Roskos and Christie (2013) pointed out, imaginative activities, including slime play, nurture creativity and cognitive flexibility. Plus, did you know slime can be a zen moment for kids? Its calming nature is great for self-regulation, helping those little minds manage sensory overload, as Schaaf and Nightlinger (2012) supported.

And let's not forget the social skills! Playing with slime can be a group activity that encourages cooperation and interaction, building those ever-important emotional and social skills. This aligns with what Lillard et al. (2013) said about the benefits of collaborative play.

To top it off, playing with slime also aids in sensory processing, a critical aspect of physical interaction and learning. The American Occupational Therapy Association and studies like that of Case-Smith et al. (2015) have shown how important sensory experiences are in child development. And, as Bergen’s research (2002) and Parten’s stages of play (1932) have shown, slime also plays a key role in fostering problem-solving skills, imagination, and social interaction.

In short, slime isn't just a sticky substance; it's a multifaceted tool in early childhood settings, supporting sensory, motor, creative, and social development in a fun and engaging way. So next time your little one reaches for the slime, remember, they're not just playing—they're growing! 🌟

Contemporary Still Lifes

The article "17 Contemporary Artists Reimagining the Still Life" on Artsy showcases how modern artists are transforming the concept of still life in art. This transformation is achieved through a diverse range of mediums and thematic explorations. The artists featured in the article employ everyday objects in their creations, utilizing these items not just as mere subjects but as tools to delve into broader narratives. These narratives span from personal to global scales, including themes like consumerism, technology's impact on humanity, and historical references.

The reimagining of still life by these artists is not confined to traditional methods. Instead, it embraces innovative approaches, such as digital media and performance art. This shift indicates a departure from classical still life art, which often focused on mundane objects, to a more dynamic and interpretative form. The artists use their works to comment on and document contemporary life, highlighting the intersections between the material world and human experience.

Each artist's unique perspective adds a distinct voice to the collective understanding of what still life can represent in the 21st century. Through their art, they challenge viewers to reconsider their perceptions of everyday objects and the stories these items can tell about our lives, society, and culture. This article thus serves as a testament to the evolving nature of art and its endless capacity to reflect and shape human experiences.

Be more assertive. Ladies, I am looking at you.

Have you ever thought you should amp up your assertiveness in conversation, especially in work situations or around people around whom you need to maintain strong boundaries? Here are three tips that have worked for me:

  • Cut Back on the 'Sorrys' - You know how we often throw in an "I'm sorry" here and there? Time to shake that off. Swap out those sorrys with something like thanks or acknowledgment. Like, switch "I'm sorry, I'm late" to "Thanks for waiting." It's a small change, but it really switches up the vibe from kinda submissive to more in control.

  • Trust Your Thoughts - Your ideas are gold. Don't start with "This is probably dumb, but..." Dive in with confidence. Try kicking off with something like, "Can I add to that?" or "Let's explore this a bit more." It shows you're not just participating; you're leading the conversation.

  • 'No' is Your Friend - And hey, 'no' is a full-on, complete sentence. If you're not cool with something, it's okay to stick to that. People might not always be thrilled about it, but they'll respect you for being clear and standing your ground. It's all about respecting yourself.

By giving these a go, you're not just talking; you're communicating with purpose. Assertiveness is all about balancing respect for yourself and others. Practice these, and you'll notice a big shift in your interactions. Go on, give them a try and see if they work for you.

Boosting visibility by harnessing the power of alternative media

Photography has always been my go-to art form. I love being an observer, setting myself up behind the camera, and waiting for that magical “decisive moment.” Lately, however, I am beginning to feel a sense of urgency around adopting new strategies in the form of video and other media formats. The goal here is to broaden my horizons in the space I'm passionate about. Practicing photography has taught me just how much a single image can convey, but I've come to accept that storytelling can have more layers, especially with videos and various media.

This shift is opening new avenues for me to connect with others, and it's pretty exciting, and also a little nerve-wracking, but in that uncomfortability there is the impetus for growth. I'm diving into this, ready to tackle everything from video production to other media platforms.

So, whether you're a local bakery, a bespoke jewelry maker, or a creative startup, it's time to level up your game in the digital world. The key isn't just in the product or service you offer but in how you present it through video. Let’s explore how you can use video storytelling to reach hundreds of thousands potential customers.

Step 1: Embracing Video in Your Strategy

  • Understand the Importance: Realize that no matter your business type, you are also a media company in the digital age. Your brand's story and how it's told can significantly impact your success.

  • Learn Basic Video Production: Start with learning the basics of video creation. There are numerous online resources to help you grasp the essentials.

Step 2: Telling Your Brand Story

  • Narrative Planning: Every effective video tells a story. It could be the journey of creating your product, the passion behind your service, or the unique aspects of your business.

  • Engaging Your Audience: Keep your viewers hooked with a compelling narrative. Build suspense and curiosity throughout the video, leading to a showcase of your product or service.

Step 3: Technical Considerations

  • Focus on Quality: Good lighting, clear audio, and stable footage are crucial. Investing in basic equipment like a good microphone and a tripod can enhance the quality of your videos.

  • Editing for Engagement: Basic editing can transform your footage. Use music, transitions, and effects wisely to complement your story.

Step 4: Promoting Your Video

  • Utilize Social Media Platforms: Share your video across various social media channels. Each platform like Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube, or TikTok caters to different demographics and can help broaden your reach.

  • Interaction is Key: Engage with your audience. Respond to comments, encourage feedback, and create a community around your brand.

Conclusion Transitioning into a business that effectively uses video might seem challenging, but it's a crucial step for visibility in today's digital marketplace. Your product or service is exceptional – now it’s time to showcase it through engaging video content. Let the world see what your small business has to offer. Get ready to film and watch your business grow!

Crafting my teaching philosophy statement

A teaching philosophy statement is extremely important for educators because of what it does for your focus as a teacher. First off, it's like holding up a mirror to your teaching style. When you sit down to write it, you really get to think about what you believe in and how you do things in the classroom. It's a sort of reality check and helps keep your teaching methods in line with your core values. With that being said, here is my preliminary go at it:

As a mixed-media art teacher, my philosophy holds that the artistic process can be just as enriching, if not more so, than the final product. This view emphasizes the journey of art-making, integrating physical creation with emotional expression and storytelling. In my classroom, a diverse array of materials, from traditional paints to found objects and ephemera, encourages students to explore personally and appreciate the beauty in imperfections. This environment fosters empathy and understanding in our learning community.

I value inclusivity and diversity, sensitive to each student's unique background. We focus on sensory learning and use an array of environmentally friendly materials, which are essential for cognitive development and overall well-being. Aligned with Howard Gardner’s Theory of Multiple Intelligences, my teaching caters to various learning styles, from physical activities to collaborative efforts, helping every student discover their artistic potential.

Art shares in my classroom may be a bit unconventional, relying on dialogue ranging from casual conversations to more structured critiques. This nurtures a collaborative environment where students can share and reflect on their artistic journeys. Ultimately, my teaching aims to create an environment where students feel acknowledged and inspired to develop both cognitively, creatively and emotionally. In my art classroom, we foster a community of learners who grow together, valuing the artistic process as much as, if not a little more than, the art they create.

Mom of a teen, wisdom to empart.

Reflecting on my teenage years, I realize they could have been smoother if I'd approached certain things with more seriousness. I'm sharing this so you can avoid the pitfalls I encountered. School might feel endless and challenging, but it's a crucial phase. Once you're through, a world of opportunities awaits.

Belonging shouldn't be a constant battle. If it feels like an uphill struggle, perhaps you're aligning with the wrong crowd. Confronting your fears might seem daunting, but it's far less painful in the long run than avoiding them. Missed opportunities and shying away from challenges can lead to a lingering sense of regret. To really grow, surround yourself with people who embody your aspirations. Your environment greatly influences your choices, so be mindful of it.

Goals are just wishes without a timeline. Setting deadlines transforms them into achievable targets. Remember, your biggest obstacle isn't external – it's your own negative mindset. Overcome that, and there's no stopping you. Be wary of substances like weed and alcohol; they're not as harmless as they might seem and often lead to more trouble than they're worth.

My intention isn't to freak you out, but to prepare you for life's realities. Freedom is enticing, but it also brings more opportunities for mistakes. Life's ups and downs are like changing seasons. Like Taylor, think of them as different "Eras" – they don't define you. Your current emotions, mistakes, or successes don't determine your worth. It's your actions and responses that truly shape you and build resilience. Remember, I love you and just want to offer some guidance.

Barbie: A Historical Examination and its Impact on Societal Body Image Expectations

Barbie, an icon of American childhood and the quintessential doll for young girls worldwide, has a far more complex and disturbing origin than many realize. The roots of Barbie trace back to the 1950s, in postwar Germany, where the doll was not a plaything for children but an adult novelty item. This doll, named Bild Lilli, was predominantly marketed to men, often kept as an automobile accessory, akin to a Hawaiian hula dancer figurine, or given as a gag gift at bachelor parties. Lilli was essentially viewed as a sex doll, a fact that often leads to a pause in the narrative due to its controversial implications.

The Bild Lilli doll was a West German line of fashion doll launched by Greiner & Hausser GmbH on August 12, 1955, and produced until 1964.

However, delving deeper, the Bild Lilli doll was based on a comic strip character of the same name, which emerged in the 1950s. Going back further, the inspiration for Lilli derived from an earlier song, "Lili Marlene", dating back to the 1910s. An even more troubling connection links Lilli to a propagandic postcard featuring a character called Li Li. Used as a recruitment tool during the war, the postcard marketed the idea to German men that enlisting would afford them opportunities to encounter beautiful French women.

Analyzing these interconnected influences offers an eye-opening perspective on body expectations and their socio-cultural implications. Germany's post-war body expectations evolved over time, significantly influencing contemporary perceptions. Notably, Karl Lagerfeld, a renowned German fashion designer, propagated the normative standard of beauty that prizes thinness and youth.

These beauty norms, however, are inherently problematic. In essence, they are steeped in racism, colonialism, and fascism. The ideal body type, as established by these standards, represents a slender, typically Caucasian, young woman, thereby excluding a vast majority of individuals who don't conform to these features. Yet, the effects of these standards extend far beyond being merely 'problematic'.

The body expectations imposed by these influences have tangible, harmful consequences. Studies show that larger women tend to earn less money, signifying a fat-shaming culture deeply entrenched in pay disparity and workplace discrimination. Furthermore, individuals, especially women, resort to unhealthy practices to alter their bodies, driven by the pressure to fit into an ideal body image rooted in fascist ideals. They often undertake drastic diets or invasive procedures, causing significant physical and mental harm, all in the pursuit of achieving an impossible standard of beauty.

In conclusion, the Barbie doll, an emblem of childhood innocence and imagination, is a product of a series of problematic influences - from its roots as a sexualized adult toy to a symbol of fascist propaganda. The unrealistic body image it promotes stems from deeply entrenched systemic biases, such as racism, colonialism, and fascism. The ramifications of these harmful beauty norms persist today, reinforcing unhealthy body expectations and contributing to systemic discrimination. As society moves forward, it is essential to challenge and redefine these standards, promoting a more inclusive and diverse understanding of beauty.

The future of work with AI

If you know me, you know I follow all things AI, and I am a huge comedy fan. The following post is a summary of a speech by comedian Brendon Lemon, and his take hit different.

The future of work is about to undergo a significant transformation, thanks to the development of chat GPT, an advanced artificial intelligence technology. This transformation is not new, as it has been talked about for a while now, but its potential impact on office work is so significant that it is likely to change the way we think about work. In a year-long program, a smart and hardworking friend of mine decided to expand his resume by learning to code. However, chat GPT now has the ability to do everything that he did, but better, faster, and cheaper. Thus, what was once believed to be a solution to job redundancy, learning to code, is no longer relevant. The only thing that will be necessary for human beings is to ensure that everything fits together properly. Even this requirement will soon be innovated away.

The concept of job destruction is not new, as Jean Baudrillard* discussed it back in the 80s and 90s. Destruction can occur in two ways; with an absence of something or an abundance of something. In the case of jobs, as we know them, they will functionally go away. People will have to do manual labor and in-person performance, and that will be it. The fiction of ownership, especially intellectual property, will be laid bare, exposing the unfair and ridiculous system of capital.

In the next two and a half years, customer service, sales, management assistants, coding, marketing, and product engineering jobs will disappear. Content production may have seemed safe initially, but even that will soon be handled by chat GPT. Imagine reading a romance novel, and chat GPT can write one specifically tailored to your interests. Similarly, the future of Netflix will have shows created entirely by AI, tailored specifically to the viewer. In the next ten years, doctors will also be out of the job as AI will be able to diagnose everything from images.

As a result of this automation, 90% of jobs will no longer be necessary. The economy will become a forum where people who have power can exercise control over most of the resources for their own benefit. The transition will occur in the next two and a half to three years, with make-work projects attempting to get people to work, similar to the ones created during the Great Depression. These efforts may be woeful since institutions, particularly in the United States, are not prepared to handle such a massive shift in the economy.

Ultimately, AI will lay bare the fact that the logic of the marketplace is causing people to participate in a system as a joke, as a kind of performance that they are all doing. Nobody loves work, and nobody wants to do it. People only do it because they have to. Thus, the future of work is uncertain, and as the world evolves, people must adapt to these changes to survive.

*Jean Baudrillard was a French philosopher, cultural theorist, and social commentator who is well known for his contributions to postmodernism. He was born on July 27, 1929, and died on March 6, 2007. Baudrillard's work dealt with issues such as consumerism, media, and technology, and he was known for his controversial and provocative ideas. He believed that society had entered a new era, in which the boundaries between reality and simulation were becoming increasingly blurred. Baudrillard's work had a significant impact on fields such as sociology, cultural studies, media studies, and philosophy. Some of his most well-known books include "Simulacra and Simulation," "The Consumer Society," and "The Gulf War Did Not Take Place."

The History of Photography in Bucks County

I live in Bucks County, Pennsylvania, and only recently have I learned this place has a rich history of photography that dates back to the mid-19th century.

Photography first arrived in Bucks County in the 1840s, just a few years after the invention of the daguerreotype process in 1839. One of the earliest photographers in the area was Edward H. Mills, who opened a daguerreotype studio in Doylestown in 1848. Mills was followed by other photographers, including Jacob Fry Jr., who operated a daguerreotype studio in Quakertown in the 1850s.

In the 1860s, the wet-plate collodion process replaced the daguerreotype, and many photographers in Bucks County began using this new process. One of the most prominent wet-plate photographers in the area was William F. Bell, who opened a studio in Doylestown in 1864. Bell's photographs of local buildings, landscapes, and people were widely distributed and helped to promote the area's natural beauty and rural charm.

In the early 20th century, many Bucks County photographers turned to the emerging art form of pictorialism, which emphasized the artistic qualities of photography. Among the most notable pictorialists in the area was Edward W. Quay, who operated a studio in New Hope from 1908 to 1935. Quay's photographs of Bucks County landscapes and buildings were widely exhibited and received critical acclaim.

The mid-20th century saw the rise of photojournalism, and many photographers in Bucks County began documenting the area's people and events. One of the most prominent photojournalists in the area was George Albert, who worked for the Bucks County Courier Times for over 50 years, documenting everything from local sports to presidential visits.

Today, photography continues to be an important part of Bucks County's cultural heritage, with many photographers continuing to document the area's natural beauty, historic buildings, and vibrant communities. The Bucks County Historical Society maintains a large collection of photographs, including works by many of the area's most prominent photographers.

The Benefits of Mirrorless Cameras for Photography

I am in the market for a mirrorless camera, and have done quite a bit of research. Friends and contemporaries often will ask me for camera recs, so I’d love to share what I learn. Here I will outline general info about the benefits of mirrorless.

In recent years, mirrorless cameras have become increasingly popular among photographers. These cameras offer many advantages over traditional DSLRs, making them a great choice for both amateur enthusiasts and professional photographers. In this blog post, we'll discuss the benefits of mirrorless cameras and why you should consider them for your photography needs.

Size and Weight

One of the most significant advantages of mirrorless cameras is their size and weight. Since they don't have a mirror box, they can be much smaller and lighter than DSLRs. This makes them easier to carry around and more comfortable to use for extended periods. Mirrorless cameras are also more compact, making them an excellent choice for travel photography or other situations where portability is crucial.

Autofocus

Another benefit of mirrorless cameras is their autofocus system. Since they use contrast detection autofocus, they can focus much more accurately than DSLRs. This is because the sensor is constantly checking for focus, which means that you're less likely to get out-of-focus shots. Mirrorless cameras are also better at tracking moving subjects, making them a great choice for sports and wildlife photography.

Electronic Viewfinder

Mirrorless cameras use an electronic viewfinder instead of an optical viewfinder. This may seem like a disadvantage, but electronic viewfinders have several advantages over optical viewfinders. First, they provide a more accurate preview of your shot, which can help you get the composition right. Second, they can display a lot of information, such as histograms, focus peaking, and exposure settings, which can help you make more informed decisions about your shot.

Finally

Mirrorless cameras offer many benefits over traditional DSLRs. They are smaller and lighter, have more accurate autofocus, and use electronic viewfinders that provide more information and a more accurate preview of your shot. If you're in the market for a new camera, consider a mirrorless camera for your photography needs. With so many options available, you're sure to find a mirrorless camera that fits your budget and meets your requirements.

Review of the Sony Alpha A7

Sony Alpha A7 Review: Outstanding Performance and Image Quality in a Compact Package

When it comes to mirrorless cameras, the Sony Alpha A7 is a top choice for photographers looking for excellent image quality, versatile features, and a compact design. In this review, we'll take a closer look at what makes the A7 a standout camera for both professional and enthusiast photographers.

Design and Build Quality

The Sony Alpha A7 features a compact and lightweight design, making it easy to carry around and shoot with for extended periods. Its weather-sealed body provides durability and protection against the elements, while its comfortable grip ensures a secure hold even when shooting in challenging conditions.

Image Quality

The A7 boasts a 24.3-megapixel full-frame sensor that delivers exceptional image quality with accurate colors, sharp details, and impressive dynamic range. Its BIONZ X image processor provides fast processing speeds, reducing noise and ensuring smoother transitions between tones.

Autofocus System

The Sony Alpha A7's advanced autofocus system features 117 phase-detection and 25 contrast-detection points that cover a wide area of the frame, allowing for quick and accurate subject tracking. It also includes Eye AF technology, which automatically detects and focuses on the subject's eyes, ensuring sharp and clear portraits.

Versatile Features

The A7 offers a wide range of features that make it a versatile tool for photographers. Its tilting LCD screen allows for easy framing from a variety of angles, while its built-in Wi-Fi and NFC connectivity enables seamless sharing and remote control capabilities. The A7 also supports 4K video recording, allowing you to capture high-quality footage with rich detail and color.

Finally

The Sony Alpha A7 is an excellent camera that delivers outstanding image quality, advanced features, and a compact design. Its versatile autofocus system, tiltable LCD screen, and 4K video capabilities make it a top choice for both professional and enthusiast photographers.

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Women Photographers : Diane Arbus

I believe I learned about the work of Diane Arbus for the first time in college. It was the early 2000s, and never before has I seen a photographer who pushed the boundaries of what was deemed “acceptable” in art and simultaneously challenged traditional notions of beauty and what is “normal.” Her work had a profound influence on the language of photography, and I was hooked.

Arbus's photographs depicted people on the fringes of society, including dwarves, transgender people, and individuals with physical disabilities. Her sensitivity and ability for connection led to an openness from her subjects so that she may capture the humanity of many in these marginalized groups. Her photographs in turn challenged viewers to confront their own biases and preconceptions. Her was her ability to create an emotional connection between the viewer and the subject. Her photographs were not simply documents of a moment in time but captured the essence of the person she was photographing. This was especially evident in her portraits, which revealed a deep understanding of the human condition and the complexity of the individual.

Arbus's influence on myself and on photography as a whole cannot be overstated. Her work inspired a generation of photographers to push boundaries and to use the medium to explore the human experience in all its complexity. Her legacy as one of the greatest photographers of the 20th century lives on, and her work continues to inspire and challenge our perceptions and biases to this day.